Understanding Abuse in Older Adulthood

Harm from family members can happen at any stage of life and in many forms such as physical, emotional, financial, sexual, or through neglect. It can affect anyone, regardless of age, health, background, income, religion, or where they live. Sometimes, the very people we trust or love can be the ones who cause harm.

Examples of Harm That Can Occur:

  • Controlling who we see, what we do, or where we go

  • Making threats, such as leaving us alone or placing us in a care facility against our will

  • Name-calling, insults, or other verbal attacks

  • Misusing or withholding medication

  • Taking money, checks, or personal belongings without permission

  • Harming pets as a form of intimidation or punishment

  • Physical harm such as hitting, shaking, pushing, or choking

  • Unwanted sexual contact or coercion

  • Isolating us from friends, family, or supportive services

Recognizing a Pattern
When harm happens repeatedly, especially by someone close to us, it may reflect a pattern of power and control. This pattern doesn’t always involve physical violence; often, the harm is emotional or psychological and may leave no visible marks. But it is still real, and it matters.